A Cherokee elder and his grandson are sitting around a fire. The elder speaks to his grandson about life. “A battle rages inside me,” he says. “It is dangerous, and it is between two wolves. One is evil. He is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, lies, superiority, and ego.” “The other is good. He is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, empathy, generosity, truth, and faith. The same fight goes on inside of you and inside of everyone else as well.” The grandson pondered his words and asked, “Which wolf will win?”
The old Cherokee smiled and replied, “If you feed them right, they both win.” “You see, if I only feed the good wolf, the bad wolf will hide in the dark waiting for me to falter so that it can pounce and get the attention he craves. He will always be angry and will always be fighting the good wolf. But if I acknowledge him, both he and the good wolf can be satisfied, and we all win.
The bad wolf has qualities that I need, something the good wolf lacks: tenacity, courage, fearlessness, strong will, and resourcefulness. The good wolf instead provides compassion, caring, heart, and the ability to value the needs of others over my own. You see, the two wolves need each other. Feeding only one and starving the other will eventually make both uncontrollable. Caring for both wolves allows them both to serve you so that you can do something good with your time on earth. Feed them both and you will quiet their internal struggle for your attention, and, when there is no battle inside, you can then hear the voices of deeper knowledge that will guide you in choosing the right path in every circumstance.
Moral: He who has peace inside has everything. He who harbors a storm within his heart and soul has nothing. How you choose to treat the opposing forces within you will ultimately determine how you live.”